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  • Memories

    Memory, Fantasy, Reality, and Time

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    Eckhart Tolle’s brilliant book The Power of Now argues compellingly that the only thing that really exists, at all, is the thing we experience as “right now,” this moment. I think this book is insightful, and on one level I completely agree with him. The power of being …

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  • Wedding Rings70

    Marriage as a Weapon

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    This was an interesting week in politics. President Obama shares in an interview that he feels personally supportive of the idea that all people, regardless of gender, should be able to marry. A few days later, Rick Santorum urges Mitt Romney to “step up and …

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  • Manhug

    Walks between Worlds

    I have learned everything I know about Touch Practice by practicing, by holding men. Hundreds of men. Hundreds of different men. Very, very different men. Some of the men I hold are conservative Republicans. Some are liberal Democrats. Some of the men I hold are …

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  • Ritual San Juan1

    Ritual As a Container for Experience

    The power of a cup of coffee in the morning (specifically, the caffeine it contains) doesn’t work quite the way many of us assume it does. In a non-habitual drinker, the caffeine in a cup of coffee certainly has a powerful physiological effect, raising blood …

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    Body Language

    One of the ways we defend ourselves against hurt is by taking things we experience in the body and intellectualizing them, turning them into thinking, stories, or talking, so that we can get away from the discomfort of feeling them. One of the techniques we …

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  • HerosJourney4c

    The Descent into Hell

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    Now there’s a catchy little title for a Spring blog. Got your attention? I’m mindful this weekend that it’s Easter. I am struck by one version of the resurrection story (enshrined in later revisions of what is now known as the Apostles’ Creed) that in …

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  • Space Needle Seattle 031

    Connecting the Dots: 2012 Group Workshops and Retreats

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    I’m going to take a break this week from writing about specific topics, because so much of my energy is focused on developing Touch Practice workshops in various places. While I will always have a special place in my heart for one-on-one work, our group …

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  • Holding Child D4 WEB

    Holding the Kid

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    I want to write today about my experiences in Touch Practice where I have sensed that somehow, instead of holding the adult man I sat down with at the beginning of the hour, I have suddenly accessed a younger, earlier part of that person. I …

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  • Buddha

    Insides Out

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    For those of you just tuning in to my journey with Touch Practice, let me give a short recap of previous episodes. Years ago, I created a structure for myself, from purely selfish motives, to get held. For reasons I didn’t understand at the time, …

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  • Socialblog Man Hugging

    Partnering Each Other: Building Workshops

    During the past two years, I’ve taught Touch Practice workshops ranging from a simple 2-hour introductory session for eight, all the way up to full weekend retreats for 24 men. While I am still committed to individual work, teaching groups of men about Touch Practice …

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