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    Suffering as a bad habit (Part Two)

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    In last week’s blog I wrote about my childhood discovery that sharing wounding can be one of the ways people become close to each other. I became attached to this particular aspect of self-disclosure and honed it into a fine art during the first part …

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    Suffering as a bad habit (Part One)

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    When I was a child, I had a number of rather intense friendships–and I liked intense friendships. There was something about closeness I thrived on, something about emotional intimacy which was meaningful to me. It made me feel fully alive and fully connected. Fairly early …

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    Making It Personal

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    Something that has been inspiring, rewarding and educational for me these past few weeks is hearing from people who have experienced Touch Practice, either individually or in a workshop, who have then gone on to establish their own practice in one form or another. I …

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    Managing Emotional Pain

    In the process of holding and sitting with many men, as with my own life, I’ve noticed different approaches for managing emotional pain. Most of us use all of these strategies at one time or another. Each strategy can be effective, or ineffective, depending on …

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    The Void

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    Many of you are aware of an empty space deep within you. Often we’re completely unconscious of it, but occasionally we become aware of this deep, deep yearning, a loneliness, a desire for something outside of us. Sometimes it can be mild, like a craving, …

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    Sharpening

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    “Sharpening” and “softening” are two opposite techniques we can use to steer psychodynamic forces within groups. Both techniques can be applied skillfully or unskillfully to influence or manipulate behavior and experience. “Sharpening” is accomplished by intentionally exaggerating individual differences while minimizing or ignoring what we have …

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    How Will It Go?

    I’m impressed this week by how difficult it is to show up to our next experience, ANY experience, without having written, in some small way, an advance script of “how it will go.” This happens to me at work all the time. A meeting might …

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    My Turn

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    I had the most extraordinary personal experience with Touch Practice this week. When I teach Touch Practice to groups, I often work with a co-facilitator, particularly if the group is large. My co-facilitator is a very gifted man, equipped in many ways: he’s compassionate, he …

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    The Energy Body

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    In last week’s blog, I mentioned that my left thigh is sometimes ticklish, or otherwise sensitive to touch, because it holds the residue of a traumatic injury to that part of my body from many decades ago. Many people practicing various modalities of touch–massage, Reiki, …

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    Show me where it hurts

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    Mentally rehearse/imagine these situations happening to you, and pay particular attention to what you feel in your physical body even as you just pretend your way through these hypothetical scenarios: 1. You return to the lot where you parked your car before meeting friends for …

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